Capitolo 20
able to pay on; the loan of five dollars that he has found there when the charity
visitor went away miles and him you/he/she was threatened with eviction. He is able
you kindly listen to his/her reference to "horrors", but it only considers him/it
"discourse of temperance."
The visitor of charity can blame the women for lack of the gentleness toward
their children, to be hasty and ill-mannered to them until her learns that
the standard to cross is not that of the gentleness toward his/her/their children
so a lot as the observance of certain conventions as the
punctilious that brings of garments of mourning after the death of a child. The
standard of the gentleness every mother has to work alone widely out,
assisted only from the occasional one it shame-faced comment of a neighbor "That
they does better when you are not too much hard on them"; but the to bring of
crying garments is definitely sustained by the express feeling of
every woman in the road. His/her mother should bear social blame a,
certainly social ostracism, if she didn't succeed in consenting with that requisite.
It is not comfortable to outrage the conventions of those among who us
long live, and, if our social life is a narrow, still it is more
difficult. The visitor can suffocate a small when she sees the they decreased
you provision of food and the scarce attire provided for the remainder
children in order that one can conventionally be cries, but her
you don't so strongly speak against him as her you/he/she would have done during her
first month of experiments with the family since the aching ones.
The subject of suits continually makes indeed perplexed the visitor and the
result of its reflections can be added on rather in this wise man: The
girl that has a social position and defined to that you/he/she has been a to the fashion
school or to an university whose family lives in a house you/he/she approves and known from
all of his/her friends and partners, can afford to be very simple, or equal
torn as to his/her suits, if it likes her. But the girl that works which