Gentle Measures in the Management and Training of the Young - Or, the Principles on Which a Firm Parental Authority May Be - Established and Maintained, Without Violence or Anger, and the Right - Development of the Moral and Mental Capacities Be Promoted by Methods - in Harmony with the Structure and the Characteristics of the Juvenile - Mind

Jacob Abbott

Capitolo 95

of the life. The thoughts of his/her/their child and the feelings that are spontaneously drawn in
the harmony with the thoughts and the feelings of those around him who he loves,
leads, clearly to a reproduction of their actions and the generality
and the universality of the effect shows as continuous and as powerful person is the
cause. Then the great secret of the success for a mother, in the formation of the
character of its children, is to be its children respect and loves him,
and then simply to _be_ what she wishes them being.

And to make to respect them and it loves him, it is to check them from a firm
government where I check it is in demand, and almost to satisfy them without
limit where indulgence won't make damage.

Question of _Special of the Principle_.

But besides this general effect of the principle of understanding in to help
parents in to form the minds and hearts of their children there are a
great many cases in that a father or mother of what they understand the secret
his/her marvelous power and almost magic you/he/she can benefit him to of him to produce
special effects. One or two examples will show more clearly what I mean.

The aunt Maria of William came to pay his/her mother a visit in the village where
The mother of William lived. In the same day she went to take a walk with
William--who nine years is old verse--to see the village. As they went
long together on the sidewalk, they came twos small boys that were
trying to fly a kite. One of the boys was being standing on the sidewalk,
embarrassed a small from of the obstacle of the sequence.

"Here, You the individual!" Said William, as his/her aunt and he drew near to the stain,
"goes out of the way with Your kite, and I/you/he/she allow us to pass."

The boy expedited out some way, and, in to do so, you/he/she found more his/her kite-sequence
still entangled in the branches of a tree of which it grew to the border the
sidewalk.

The aunt of William would now have picked up the occasion as his/her nephew and she
walked long, to give him some kind and friendly education or suggestion
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