Gentle Measures in the Management and Training of the Young - Or, the Principles on Which a Firm Parental Authority May Be - Established and Maintained, Without Violence or Anger, and the Right - Development of the Moral and Mental Capacities Be Promoted by Methods - in Harmony with the Structure and the Characteristics of the Juvenile - Mind

Jacob Abbott

Capitolo 83

and practical, and to the same duration that contrives some way of dispossessing him
entirely of every direct question to them in in comparison to their _past_
behavior. Clearly, the more than we practically return us him applicable to them in
you respect to the future the best.

There are the various ways of give suggestion of this character. It asks for of it
the ingenuity to invent them, and of the degree of touch and the ability to apply them
with success. But the necessary touch and the ability would easily be acquired from
some mother whose heart has put to the finds kind ways to really conduct
his/her child in the run of the duty.

_James and his/her Cousins_.

James, while going to spend one of his/her vacations of university to his/her uncle, it was
taken by his/her two cousins, Walter and Ann--eight and six years old--in
their room. The room was all in confusion. There was a set of book-shelves
on a side, the books on them lying fell around in all the directions.
There was a case that contains toys in another place the toys,
broken and in trouble;  and two tables, one against the wall and the other
in the middle one of the room, both covered with litter. Now if James had
started his/her conversation giving a lecture to his/her/their children on the trouble
of their room, and on the duty, on their behalf of taking the best care of
their things, the principal effect simply able be be very probably to
prevents theirs desiring to have comes again it to their room.

But James differently handled the case. After having gone on the room for
some minutes with his/her/their children, and looking with them at them various
treasures, and admiring what they seemed to admire, but without finding some
blames, he sat him in front of the fire and takings his/her children on his/her womb--one
on every knee--and it started to parlarloro. Ann had one of his/her portrait-books
in his/her hand, some of the leaves lacerated, and the rest defaced with dog's-ear.

"Now, Walter", it said James, "I will give him some suggestion. I am going
to recommend her/it thing to do and as to act when you go to the university. Among brief
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