Gentle Measures in the Management and Training of the Young - Or, the Principles on Which a Firm Parental Authority May Be - Established and Maintained, Without Violence or Anger, and the Right - Development of the Moral and Mental Capacities Be Promoted by Methods - in Harmony with the Structure and the Characteristics of the Juvenile - Mind

Jacob Abbott

Capitolo 82

the good person aimed to, and to the same duration to avoid the bad one, asks for the
exercise of the touch and the ingenuity to which have been before reported. But
with correct ability and corrected care the habit of noticing and to praise, or
also noticing alone, when children straighten, and to be also more
rapid to notice and pleased being with the right that to discover and to be
displeased with the evil, you/he/she will be found to be a very powerful he/she wants to say of
children that train in the correct way.

Children will act with a great quantity more promptness and the alacrity to preserve
a good character that people already attribute to them, that to assuage
them of the infamy of a bad with which they is debited. In
other words, very it is easier to allure them to what is correct that to
drive them from what is wrong.

_Giving Advice._

2. There is, perhaps, nothing more annoying to children that to listen to
I recommend datum to them in a direct and simple form, and there is perhaps
nothing that has I lead the influence on them in the formation of them
characters that the suggestion so datum. And there is the good reason for this;  for
or the suggestion has to be general, and clearly more or less the abstract,
when necessarily it is in a great measure lost with them since them,
the powers of generalization and the extraction are not developed yet;  otherwise,
if it is practical and particular to everybody, it has to be so with reference to
their his/her own daily experience in the life--in that the case becomes more annoying
anchor as they necessarily consider him/it an indirect way to guilt-find.
Indeed, some kind of suggestion is almost sure to suppose the form of
mean-hidden guilt-discovery, for the subject of the given suggestion
both, in almost all cases, it suggested from the errors or defects, or
failures that had recently been observed in the behavior of his/her/their children.
The art, then to give general suggestion and education to children in
you respect to their behavior and behavior, it consists of doing defines him
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