Capitolo 81
what she quickly comes, and then, after having run the errand, it is ready to go
back to his/her play, his/her mother says, "you left Your play and you/he/she immediately came
when I called her. That was corrected. Arrange a lot me to find that me
you/he/she can depend on Your so ready being, also when you are to play", Mary the wish
goes up again to his/her settled and happy play; and the tendency of the accident
it will be to cause a spontaneous and cordial interest to feel her/it in the
principle of the ready obedience in duration to come.
Johnny is taking a walk through the fields with his/her mother. He sees a
butterfly and set street in hunting of him. When he has gone away from the run
between the stones and bushes as far as he/she thinks his/her mother it is sure, she calls
him to return. In many cases, if the boy immediately doesn't enter
the obedience to such call, he would perhaps receive a scolding. If him ago
immediately return, nothing is said. In both the cases any definite effect
is produced on him.
But if it says his/her mother, "Johnny, you immediately respected when I called her.
It has to be hard, when you are after a butterfly and he/she thinks that you almost have
picks him/it up, immediately to stop and to return to Your mother when she calls
You; but you did him/it", Johnny will be conducted by this treatment to feel a desire
to still return more quickly the neighbor turns.
_A Caution._
There is clearly a variety without end of ways from which you can show Your
children that you notice and it appreciate the efforts that they makes to straighten.
There is undoubtedly a danger to be protected against. To adopt the practice of
noticing and praising that that is corrected, and paying whatever_ of attention of _no
to what is wrong, it would be a great perversion of this suggestion. There is
a more insidious danger of this, but still very serious and true,
to raise a feeling of the vanity and the constant same-conceitedness and
inconsiderate encomium. These things must have protected against; and to assure