Gentle Measures in the Management and Training of the Young - Or, the Principles on Which a Firm Parental Authority May Be - Established and Maintained, Without Violence or Anger, and the Right - Development of the Moral and Mental Capacities Be Promoted by Methods - in Harmony with the Structure and the Characteristics of the Juvenile - Mind

Jacob Abbott

Capitolo 71

the anxiety or the anguish; as frequently, in people subject to headache, the
paroxysm is gotten by worryings or the perplexities incidentally borne on
the preceding day;  and especially as the violent and painful emotions often,
when they is extreme, you result in definite and sometimes in permanent and
insanity without hope--or, in an irreparable damage to some delicate
mechanism in the brain--we will see that there is every reason for
supposing that all the sudden hits to the nervous system of children, everybody
violent and painful excitements, all the irritations and irritations and
ebullitions of the sick-temperament and it irritates, has a tendency to disturb the healthy one
development of the cerebral organs, and it is able, in many cases, seriously
strikes the future health and welfare as the present happiness, of
his/her child.

It is true that mental troubles and the nervousness of some kind cannot be
avoided completely. But they should be avoided the most distant possible;  and the
more efficient he/she means for avoiding a firm it is them, although calm and kind,
establishment and maintenance of parental authority, and not, as many
mothers that the many mistakinglies imagine, from unreasonable indulgences and
from it looks for to handle their children from persuasions, bribings and
manoeuvrings, instead of from commands. His/her children more satisfied, and the
the less one governed, it is always the most petulant and irritable;  while a strong
government, whether to regulate, uniforms, and only, and if you/he/she is administered from kind
measures, are the more strength of every possible instrumentalities for
the surrounding infancy with an atmosphere of calm and the peace.

In a word, while his/her mother is tied up to do all in his/her power to make
subjugation to his/her easy authority and of accord to his/her children, from
softening as much as possible the disappointment and the work that her
you sometimes command they cause, and connecting the pleasant ideas and
feelings with actions of the obedience from his/her/their child, she doesn't owe
Prev   Il contenuto del libro   Next

Miasta linia kroplująca obróbka tworzyw sztucznych hotel in posen Tynki