Gentle Measures in the Management and Training of the Young - Or, the Principles on Which a Firm Parental Authority May Be - Established and Maintained, Without Violence or Anger, and the Right - Development of the Moral and Mental Capacities Be Promoted by Methods - in Harmony with the Structure and the Characteristics of the Juvenile - Mind

Jacob Abbott

Capitolo 63

puts in enclosure, but it doesn't make promises, and then, on to return from the village with
the candy in its purse, simply ask to Susan, when she enters, if the
children have respected his/her injunction not to leave the enclosure. If it says Susan
yes, she mentions with the head to them, with a glance of the satisfaction and pleasure and it adds:
"I thought that you/they would have respected me to them. I am very happy. I can now have again trust in them."

Then, among brief, toward the closing of the day, perhaps and when the
children suppose that the bargain has forgotten, she takes an opportunity to
call them to her, while saying that she has anything for dirloro.

"You remember when I went a to-day of village, I left her in the enclosure
and says that you don't have to go out some gate, and you respected. Perhaps You
is be liked to go out to the road and to play there, but you are not able
goes because I had prevented him. I am a lot of gladiolus that you have respected. I thought
of You when I was in the village, and I thought that you would have respected me. I felt
entirely safe around You. If you had been disobedient children, I should have
felt uncomfortable and anxious. But I felt me sure. When I had ended my purchase,
I thought that I would have bought him some candy, and here they is. You can go and
he sits together on the carpet and divides them. Mary can choose one, and
then Jane;  then Mary, and then Jane again;  and so on until them they are everybody
chosen."

_Difference in the Character of the Effects_.

It is able, perhaps is said from the reader, that this is substantially the same
as giving a direct reward for the obedience. I admit that it is in some
feels _substantially_ the same thing, but it is not the same in form. And
this is one of those cases where the effect is very greatly changed by the
form. Where children are directly promised to a reward if theirs do so and this way,
they naturally concerns the operation as of the nature of a contract or a
contracts, such that when they has carried out to the conditions on their behalf
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