Capitolo 61
in demand, to go them circumstances good different and times.
_Obedience doesn't have to be Bought_.
If the to give some recommendation and rewards is made a matter of mere hideaway
routine, as the to assign of kind criminal punishments can be, the wish of result
becomes a mere system of _bribing_, or paying rather children to be good;
and goodness that you/he/she is bought, if it deserves the name of the virtue to everybody, it is
certainly the virtue of a very inferior quality.
If a reward conferred for the obedience it will operate as a gift, or
rather as it paid a price--for a _bribe_, while severely speaking, it is a paid price,
not for you straighten, but for offends--it depends on very sometimes disdains
the differences in the management of the particular case--the differences that a
mother that doesn't discriminate won't be very ready to appreciate.
A mother, for example going to the village in one afternoon in summer, leaves
his/her children that play in the enclosure, under the general position of Susan that
it is at work in the kitchen from which she can observe at times them
through the open window. You think that his/her children will be sure, provided that
they remains in the enclosure. The only thing to be protected against it is the danger
what they can overcome out the gate in the road.
Different _Two Maniere of Management_.
Under of the circumstances, as, for example, where the danger to that them
you/he/she would be exposed in to go to the road it was very great, or where his/her mother
you/he/she cannot count on his/her power to check the behavior of his/her ethic children
he/she wants to tell some way, the only sure method would be to assure the gate. But if
she prefers to depend for their safety on their voluntary obedience to
his/her commands and wishes, besides to promote the spirit of the obedience from
compensating rather than punishing, she can make his/her rewards of the nature of
rentals or not, according to his/her way of management.
If she desires to the obedience of _hire_, she has to only tell his/her children that
she is going to the village for a small time, and that they can play in