Capitolo 5
"If You if _not_ had to be a good girl, but you/he/she should show signals to manufacture us some
acts, I will have to send out her in some place to the part of back of the
house until us we have gone."
But this last supposition is almost always not necessary; for if Mary has
state habitually handled on this principle she wants ago _not_ of it
trouble. You immediately will perceive that the matter is resolved--fixed
irreversibly--and especially that it is completely over the power of some
demonstrations of insubmission or rebellion that she can make to change him/it.
You immediately will be acquiescent. [A] you can be sorry that she cannot go, but
she won't make resistance. Those children only try to bring them
stung by noisy and violent demonstrations that find, from experiments, that
such measures are successful. A child, also that you/he/she is become once
gotten used to them, he/she will let them fall soon if she finds, while it is owing to a change
in the system of management that they never succeeds now. And a child that
never, from the beginning, it finds some efficiency in them, it never learns to
assume at all them.
_Conclusion_.
Of the three methods of directive children exemplified in this chapter,
the last one is only the one to which or you/he/she can be followed with comfort the
parent or the safety to his/her/their child; and to show as this method can be brought
indeed in operation from kind measures it is the object of this book.
It is, indeed, true that the importance of touch and the ability in the training
of the young one, and to cultivate their reason, and assuring them
affection, cannot be overestimated. But influences assured from these means
you form, to the best but a sandy foundation for the filial obedience to remain
on. His/her child won't be been for consenting with him the requisite of his
parents being astutely allured in the acquiescence, neither it is his/her obedience
to remain on his/her love for father and mother and his/her unwillingness
to displease them, neither on his/her sentence of the rightfulness and
the reasonableness of their commands, but on simple _submission to