Capitolo 49
what in theory can be very well entirely, but that practically mothers have
not the ease and the means to adopt such moderated measures. We am able
not the stop, she can say, every time that we am going to the village, on important
business perhaps, and it turns again and it loses the afternoon on account of the
waywardness of a disobedient child.
My answer is that it didn't owe to that the time,_ of _every to be done but only a lot
rarely. The effect to act once or twice on this principle, with the
the certainty from his/her child that his/her mother or his/her aunt always want
acts so when the occasion sends him/it to call, very soon it puts an end to everybody
the necessity for such action. Indeed, if Mary, in the example above of datum,
you/he/she had been handled so in from the infancy, she would not have thought of
leaving the run when forbidden to do this way. It is only in such some case as
that of an aunt that knows whether to handle right, while coming as a visitor in the
family of a mother that handles badly that such accident as this was able
happens.
Still you/he/she must be admits that the kind methods of discipline that
reason and common sense permanently point out as the true ones for
influencing the minds of children and forming their characters, face, in
every individual case, requires more time and care that the cuffs and slaps
dictated by passion. A box on the ear, as a cat gives to a rebel
makes the kitten, certainly it is the question of _quickest_ that can be done. The
measures that are calculated to arrive and to strike the heart you/they cannot compete with
hits and scoldings in in comparison to the promptness of their action. Still,
his/her parent or the teacher that will start to act here on the principles
recommended with children while they is young it will find that such methods
it is readier far in their action and more strength in immediate results
what they would suppose, and that they will be the means to establish
the only kind of authority that is more quickly really worthy of the name
what some other.
However, the special point with a sight to which these illustrations are