Capitolo 42
admitting the considerations that attenuate in in comparison to the nature
of the offense, certainly the result will be the establishment of the
authority of his/her/their parent or it protects on a fixed and permanent base.
There are many cases of some kind, where a child with inveterate
the habits of the insubordination come to the position of a person that is not under
responsible for the formation of these habits. Also his/her mother her
it is sometimes found in substantially this position with her really
children; as, for example, when after the years of weary and inefficient
I govern that she is convinced that its management has been wrong, and
what a threat to produce bitter fruits unless it is reformed. In
these cases, even if the job both rather more difficulty, the principles
on that success depends it is the same. You disdain criminal punishments, firmly,
decisively, and it invariably strengthened--without the violence, without scolding,
without any demonstration of resentment or it irritates, and, except in extreme
cases, without equal expressions of the sorrow--constitutes a system that,
if you/he/she is calmly performed, but with steadiness and decision, desire surely
succeeds.
True _The Difficulty_.
The case would seem so to be very simple, and the very easy success. But,
alas! this is away from the being the case. Nothing is in demand, it is true, but
the steadiness, the steadiness and decision; but, unfortunately, these are a lot the
requisites that, of all others, it seems very difficult for mothers to
command. They cannot govern their children because they cannot govern
them.
Anchor, if his/her mother possesses these qualities in some tolerable degree, or you/he/she is
able to acquire them, this method to train his/her children to the habit of
implicitly submitting to his/her authority, from calmly and good-naturedly, but
firmly and posting some invariably, disdains deprivation or criminal punishment to each
action of resistance to its wish, is the easiest to practise, and the wish
is certainly successful. It doesn't ask for any ingenuity, any ability no