Gentle Measures in the Management and Training of the Young - Or, the Principles on Which a Firm Parental Authority May Be - Established and Maintained, Without Violence or Anger, and the Right - Development of the Moral and Mental Capacities Be Promoted by Methods - in Harmony with the Structure and the Characteristics of the Juvenile - Mind

Jacob Abbott

Capitolo 33

times before you move to do what I say me. I will have a jail.
The jail has to be that closet of dark, and I will close above her in
it for half a hour every time that you disobey. Now remember! The very next one
calculations!"

_Empty Threatening_.

Mothers that rarely govern threatening make some thing but they threaten.
Accordingly, the first time his/her children disobey her/it, after such
announcement, she doesn't say anything, if to the case it happens to be one in that the
disobedience the cause any particular trouble. The neighbor turns, when the
transgression is an a little more serious, she thinks, very exactly
perhaps, that to be closed on half a hour in a dark closet would be a
disproportionate punishment. Then, when for a long time some very stubborn and
serious action of the insubordination happens, she happens to be particularly in
good-humor, for of the reason and it doesn't have the heart to close "the poor thing"
in the closet; or, there is perhaps, present of society, and she doesn't desire
to make a scene. Then the criminal punishment announced with so a lot of emphasis results
being a dead letter, as they knew his/her children that it is able from the beginning.

Discipline of _How can be both Kind and Efficient_.

With a small dexterity and touch on the part of his/her/their mother, the case can be,
very differently handled, and with a very different result. I/you/he/she allow us to suppose
what of the day, while she is busy with his/her sewing or his/her other family
duties, and his/her children are playing around her, she says theirs that in
of the great schools in Europe, when the boys are disobedient, or it violate the
rules, they is hissed for punishment in some kind of jail;  and perhaps her
it entertains them with invented examples of boys that would not go to jail,
and you/he/she had to be takes there from strength, and it held longer on account of there
their quarantine;  and also of other boys noble, tall and beautiful, and the
best players for motives that it quickly went when they offends and
it was orderly in confinement, and it annoyed their punishment as men, and that
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