Capitolo 32
don't say genius that can advantageously be practiced in the last one
method. The first one is the more main point; and he/she wants alone, if faithfully
performed, hands defeasible the end. The second, if his/her mother has the touch
and ability to bring him/it in effect, will help a lot in to bring defeasible the
you result, and in a way together more than accord to both the parties. The
bystanders will do the job to form the habit of the obedience from
his/her mother, and to acquire him/it from his/her/their child, a source of the
taller enjoyment to both. But it unfortunately requires, then, more abilities
and the dexterity, more gentleness of touch so to speak, and a more delicate
constitution of soul, that the most greater part of mothers can be waited him to possess.
But it allowed us to see what I/you/they are the three methods.
_First Method_.
1. The first principle is that his/her mother should regulate so his/her management
of his/her child, that he owes _never_ earns some you/he/she desired end from some action of
insubmission, but _always_ incurs in of the small trouble, troubles, or
deprivation, disobeying or neglecting to respect the command of his/her mother.
The important words in this affirmation of the principle are _never_ and
_always_. It is the absolute certainty that disobedience will make him/it evil, and
you don't help him in which the whole effectiveness of the rule consists.
It is very amazing as small he will show effective a punishment if it
it is only _certain_ to follow the transgression. You can separately put a certain
puts for a jail--an angle of the sofa, a certain ottoman, a chair a
stool, some thing will respond; and the more entirely every thing as a
air of the sorrow or the gravity you/he/she is excluded, in the way of do the
preliminary setups, the best. A mother without some touch or some
correct understanding of the way in that the hearts and chins of youth
children are influenced, it will start, very probable, with a scolding.
"Children, you are becoming very disobedient. I have to speak three or four