Capitolo 31
street. It was a native instinct of the soul--the same that conducts the lamb
and the calf to hold next to the side of their mother and causes the unweaned
child to grab on to the breast of his/her mother, and to tighten himself/herself/themselves from the being put away in
the manger or it cradles alone.
The Responsibility of _The remains on the Mother_.
His/her mother has to understand so that the principle of the obedience is not
being waited him to enter from nature the heart of his/her child, but to be
planted by education. You have to so fully understand this as to feel that
if she finds that his/her children are disobedient to his/her commands--going out away
of cases of sight of detail and the extraordinary temptation--it is the guilt of _her_,
not the theirs. I should not perhaps say precisely his/her _fault_, for her it is able
you/he/she has done as she knows how; but, in every case, his/her failure. Instead,
therefore, to be angry with them, or piercing and complaining himself/herself/itself around the
acts gives her/it to them, she should leave them, as is, out of the case,
and it turns him his/her thoughts to her, and to his/her his/her own management, with a sight to
the discovery and the to correct of his/her his/her own abandonments and errors. In
a word, she has to regularly put on the job of and systematically
_teaching_ his/her children to submit their wish to his.
_Three Methods_.
I will give three principles of management, or rather three different
classes of measures, from he/she wants to say of what you/they can certainly be been children
obedient. Most perfect success will be reached assuming them everybody.
But they asks for very different degrees of the ability and touch on the part
of his/her/their mother. The first one asks for the very small ability. It only requires
the steadiness, calm and the perseverance. The second draws very more on
the mental resources of his/her/their mother and the last, the most greater part of everybody. Indeed, as wish
to the moment is seen, there is no limit to the amount of touch and the ingenuity,